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6 Ways To Reduce Stress and Stop Worrying!

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6 Ways To Reduce Stress and Stop Worrying

 

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6 Ways To Reduce Stress and Stop Worrying!

 

What Happens When We Don’t Manage Stress Effectively?

In small doses, stress can actually be useful as it helps you to stay focused, alert and increases energy. But when stress becomes chronic though, it can damage your health, mood and relationships. Basically,  your overall quality of life!

Stress is sneaky! It can easily creep up on you so that being frazzled and overwhelmed starts to feel normal. You may not even recognize how much it is affecting you so it is really important to recognize the signs and symptoms of stress and then take steps to stop feeling so overwhelmed.

 

Different Ways Stress Can Affect Us

 

Six Ways To Reduce Stress and Stop Worrying

So now you have identified how stress affecting you, let’s look at ways to feel less stressed and worried.

1. Stop The Adrenaline

When you are stressed, adrenaline runs through your body. Your heart beats fast, your body tenses up and one very important effect is that your thoughts race. Racing thoughts make thinking clearly difficult and that is when you get overwhelmed and stressed. Doing a quick breathing exercise clears your thoughts and lets you take a time out so you can come back to the situation and deal with it calmly.

1. Take a slow breath in through the nose, breathing into your lower belly so you feel it inflate like a balloon (for the count of 4)
2. Hold your breath for 1 or 2 seconds
3. Exhale slowly through the mouth so that you are pushing out the air in the “balloon” and you feel your belly suck in (for the count of 5)
4. Make sure the exhale breath is one or two counts longer that the inhale breath as this activates a greater relaxation response.
5. Wait a few seconds before taking another breath

Deep breathing triggers the stimulation of the vagus nerve which is a nerve running from the base of the brain to the abdomen. The vagas nerve then emits a chemical (the neurotransmitter acetylcholine) and that dampens our nervous system, lowering heart rate, relaxes muscles and most importantly, stops your thoughts from racing so you can think straight. As a psychologist I have been telling people the benefits of deep breathing for over 20 years but it is only the past few years with the advances of brain imaging that we know how the process works.

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More details about how and why this works can be found in my blog post A Simple Way To Keep Calm

 

 

2. Get Enough Sleep

Getting more sleep sounds easy in theory, but so many people find it hard to achieve. It is the most important thing to change if you are feeling stressed though. The average amount of sleep needed by adults for their body and mind to be fully rested is around seven hours a night. This of course can vary but you know you aren’t getting enough when your mood is negatively affected. Lack of sleep can stop you thinking clearly, wrecks productivity and can alter your mood significantly. The “walking tired” anger more easily, have problematic relationships and are less likely than those who sleep well to exercise, eat healthfully, and engage in fun leisure activities; all because they are too tired.

What with work, errands and seeing to their family’s needs, women have so much to do that often they feel they can only get them done by staying up late. My clients also tell me they stay up late as it is the only way to get some “me time”.  Staying up late is probably not working for you though and improving your sleep is one of the best ways to improve the quality of your life. We need to work on being either more organized or less perfectionist about getting things done, knowing it’s okay to ask and expect help, and knowing it is totally necessary to have “me time”. But not at the expense of sleep!

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I also have a lot more info on my blog post Sleep – Why It Is Important & How To Get It

 

 
 

3. Build In Time To Stop & Relax

I often hear my clients say “Come on, how on earth will I be able to make time for myself when I have so much to do?” and I always reply,  if you don’t look after yourself you won’t have the reserves to take care of all the other people in your life you take care of. When our reserves are low we’re cranky, overly sensitive and generally not as happy as we want to be. So please take some time each day, even if it only 10 minutes, to relax.

  • Have a warm bath (not hot) as this will help your body reach a temperature that’s ideal for rest.
  • Writing “to do” lists for the next day can organize your thoughts and clear your mind of any worrying thoughts that pop in to your head (more about that later…)
  • Relaxation exercises, such as light yoga stretches, help to relax the muscles. Don’t exercise vigorously though, as it will have the opposite effect.
  • Relaxation CDs can help as they use a hypnotic voice to guide you through muscle relaxation and soothing music and sound effects to relax your brain.
  • Watching TV or any computer or phone screen keeps the brain engaged and active so it is harder to fall asleep. It is better to read a book or listen to the radio as that relaxes the mind by distracting it from the present worries.

4: Don’t Run Yourself Ragged

Say no! If you are a people-pleaser it is very hard to say no when someone asks you to do something, even if your schedule is already overwhelming. I suggest that you always say “let me get back to you on that” then actually ask yourself:

a) Do I want to do it?

b) Do I have time to do it without making myself overwhelmed?

It is usually easier to say no when you are not face to face with someone.

5. Stress Is Closely Related To Worry So Worry Less

So how do we worry less? Obviously easier said than done but the first step is to distinguish between worries that require your attention and worries that are unnecessary.

The following questions can help you clarify this:

“Can I do something about this problem?”

“Is this something I always worry about, but nothing ever happens?”

“Is this something that has a solution?”

“Will my worrying make this situation better or worse or have no effect at all?”

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If there is something you can do about the problem, take action or consciously choose not to take action.

People often delay or avoid taking action or making decisions because they are worried about making a mistake.

If the situation is out of your control and there is nothing you can do, worrying does not make the situation better!

Tell yourself that your worries are not helpful and let them go. Again , I know this is easier said than done, but it can improve with practice.

It can help to challenge your thoughts about the worry and ask yourself:

“Where’s the evidence for that?” or

“What would be so bad about that?” or

“Is this problem so important that I should spend all my time thinking about it?”

To read more about reducing worry read The Number One Question That Helps Worrying

 
 
 

6. Reduce A Worry’s Power Over You

One very effective way to reduce a worry’s power over you is by getting the negative thoughts out of your head and on to paper. Being able to see the worry in black and white helps give you more perspective.

Study your worries by keeping a Worry Diary.

Write down what you fear might happen (be as specific as possible) and then later write down if what you were worried about actually happened, whether it was as bad as you expected, and what you did to cope with the situation.

This will help you understand your worries better, distinguish between worries that are useful and those that are useless, and help you realize that you can cope no matter what happens.

  • Set aside some time during the day to worry— your “worry time”.  Select a time every day that is convenient for you and pick a suitable amount of time to worry (half an hour, one hour). Use this time to think about your worries and about possible resolutions. It can be helpful to write things down. It will take time to train yourself not to dwell on worries at other times of the day or night.
  • Practice is key here. What you can do if you worry outside of the set aside time is to write the worry down and put it in a “worry box” (you can use an empty tissue box for this or write the worry in a list you keep on your smart phone). Then, when it’s your official worry time, you can look at your worries and deal with them appropriately.
  • Keep a pen and a pad of paper for worries that come to you at night. Night worries can go round and around in our head as it seems so important at the time to remember them. This can cause adrenaline levels to start rising in your body which of course, keeps you awake and your thoughts racing more. Writing the worry down and then distracting yourself (read using a book light or do a relaxation techniques) calms you physically and mentally, allowing you to get to sleep.

I hope you find these 6 tips useful. If you would like to read more about ways to overcome anxiety and worrying please take a look at my free booklet.

When clients first come in to see me, the main concerns that come up again and again are:

  1. How can I feel less stressed, angry and overwhelmed?

  2. What should I do if I feel panicky?

  3. How can I stop worrying about everything: my children, partner, friends, work, my “to do” list….

SIMPLE STEPS TO OVERCOME ANXIETY & WORRYING ebook

So I put together a booklet with some strategies I am always giving to my clients to help them begin to feel less anxiety and to worry less.

I hope that you will find it helpful too.

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    Oprah Magazine Interview About Stress Management

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    Rage Room Oprah Magazine Interview

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    I Destroyed Plates, a Printer, and Sharp Objects at a Rage Room to Try and De-Stress!

    Oprah Magazine| September 2019

    I recently received an email from journalist Sam Gutierrez who was writing a piece for the Oprah Magazine about dealing with stress by visiting a rage room. She asked to interview me about whether they are helpful or not in relieving stress. Sam very helpfully included a link to a NYTimes article about rage rooms (which I appreciated as I had never heard of rage rooms before). Even though I was new to the concept of rage rooms, I have over two decades of clinical experience helping people develop coping skills to manage stress and anger, so I replied I would be happy to be interviewed and then I quickly read the NYTimes piece!

    You can read the whole Oprah Magazine article online by clicking the title above or the image of Sam going at an old printer with a sledgehammer.

    Below are the specific paragraphs from the article that I was quoted in so you can see my opinion about rage rooms for stress:

    “Truthfully, I was skeptical to give a rage room a shot. Sure, I may have been a psych major and do advocate for going to therapy, but could this really help people feel better? For that answer, I talked to experts Dr. Sarah Allen and Dr. Deborah Offner—who both had their reservations as well.

    Allen and Offner agreed that exercise can often help reduce stress by getting rid of pent up energy, boosting endorphin production, and distracting you from whatever the problem might be. “It’s actually not good for us to be in that constant state [of stress], so anything that is going to make us feel less stressed is going to be good for us. And having a safe release of that pent up energy, if that’s in a rage room, I guess that might be helpful for some people,” said Allen. “But pumping out the effects of your stress can only take you so far,” she added, “Stress can be an important signal to us that something is wrong or needs our attention.”

    What I learned? Yes, fun activities like heading to a rage room can treat surface symptoms, but our overall stress comes from many underlying factors that can’t be solely addressed by batting at intimate objects. “If this is something where you’re chronically stressed, I really think you need to explore why you’re feeling stressed, or angry, or frustrated, and then look into making changes in your lifestyle, or maybe your relationships, that prevent those feelings or help you problem-solve those feelings,” said Allen. In other words, rage rooms are not a substitute for therapy.

    Additionally, Allen pointed out that certain populations like teens or people who have difficulty managing their anger should definitely avoid rage rooms given that hitting, yelling, and throwing things may simply reinforce negative behavior. “You’re training yourself that, if you yell and hit you might feel better, but is that a good life skill? Because then you’re associating anger with aggression, even in that controlled situation, rather than finding solutions to avoid the problems about which you’re angry in the first place,” she noted.”
    I don’t regret my time at The Wrecking Club, in fact, I seriously enjoyed it. To be in a place where breaking things (including social norms) is not only accepted, but encouraged, was thrilling and something I could see myself doing again. Even if just for a few hours, the experience did distract me from all of my problems. But as both Allen and Offner pointed out, the relief was only temporary. I’m not so sure I’ll be trading in my therapist for a baseball bat any time soon.”

    Better Ways To Manage Stress & Anger

    The Oprah Magazine Rage Room article is very interesting but as I mentioned in the interview, I don’t think going to a rage room is more than a very temporary way to deal with stress and not for everyone, so I thought it would be a good idea to discuss some strategies here that I think are more useful in managing stress and anger.

    Stress and anger have a lot in common because both are emotions that are ramped up by an adrenaline response in our bodies. You have probably heard of the fight or flight response. When we are in a stressful situation our body gears us up for action by pumping adrenaline. Your heart beats fast, your body tenses up, your thoughts race and you have a lot of energy enabling you to run away or fight. The physical effects that adrenaline has within our bodies are the same, but the psychological factors such as the emotions and type of thoughts that are triggered within a situation, are typically labeled by our brain as feelings of stress/anxiety or anger.

    There are both in-the-moment and long-term stress management strategies, depending on what you are facing.

    Short-term Techniques For When You Are Feeling Very Stressed or Angry

    In the short-term, deep breathing and other physically based strategies really help you calm down quickly when you are in the middle of an adrenaline attack. The way to counteract adrenaline is to engage our parasympathetic nervous system by deep breathing or other grounding techniques.

    Grounding basically means to bring your focus to what is happening to you physically, either in your body or in your surroundings, instead of being trapped by the thoughts in your mind that are causing you to feel anxious.

    Deep breathing triggers the stimulation of the vagus nerve—a nerve running from the base of the brain to the abdomen – which emits a neurotransmitter (acetylcholine) that dampens our nervous system, lowering heart rate, relaxes tense muscles and most importantly, stops your thoughts from racing so you can think straight. My popular post below explains what happens in the brain as well as deep breathing, distraction and ‘get that energy out” strategies to calm you down quickly.

    7 Simple Grounding Techniques For Calming Down Quickly 

    https://drsarahallen.com/7-ways-to-calm/

     

     

     

    Often we get really stressed about things that have happened in the past, or are so far in the future that they are imagined problems and probably won’t even happen. Once you have calmed down the adrenaline and stopped your thoughts racing, bringing yourself to the present moment and asking yourself if you can personally do anything to address the issue you are worrying about is very helpful.

    I talk about this in a lot more depth in the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) strategies section below but in that moment of stress or anxiety ask yourself these 2 questions:

    1. Is this something that is happening right here, right now? (Not in the past or in the future).

    2. Is it in my control to do something about this problem?

    If the issue is actually happening now or in the near future, then it is good to problem-solve what options you have to deal with the problem. I call this “Active Worrying” and you can take steps to fix the problem or even actively decide not to do anything. If it outside of your control, realize you can’t actually do anything and let the worry go. Distraction and acceptance are helpful strategies in that scenario.

    Chronic Stress Coping Strategies

    When your stressors (which can be either situations or people in your life) are chronic it can really take a toll on your health, your overall mood and your relationships and this is when you need more long-term stress management strategies.

    Physical Self-Care

    By prioritizing eating healthily (most of the time), increasing physical activity and getting enough sleep, we can really support long term stress management.

    When we eat a high sugar or refined carbohydrate diet it can cause blood sugar spikes which in turn can lead to anxiety for some people. If you are tired from not getting enough sleep and then drink lots of caffeine to keep going, you set yourself up for stress. We are also more likely to reach for unhealthy food choices when we eat for comfort. Working on alternative strategies for managing stress, rather than emotional eating, and prioritizing our time so we have time to shop and cook balanced meals are good long-term strategies.

    Five Ways To Soothe Frayed Emotions Without Food

    https://drsarahallen.com/how-to-soothe-frayed-emotions-without-food/

    A good night’s sleep helps us think more clearly, be more productive and manage our mood better, especially our reactive emotions. According to the National Sleep Foundation (NSF) the “walking tired” anger more easily, have problematic relationships and are less likely than those who sleep well to exercise, eat healthfully, have sex and engage in fun leisure activities; all because they are too tired.

    Sleep – Why It’s Important & How To Get It!

    Increasing physical activity is also a great stress management tool. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you should sign up for a gym membership that you might never use. Exercise can be anything that moves your body and is much better for you if you enjoy what you are doing be it a walk, dancing around your bedroom to YouTube videos or stretching before bed. Getting out the adrenaline energy that chronic stress produces helps our body relax and also produces feel-good neurochemicals such as endorphins and serotonin that improve our overall mood.

    Emotional Self-Care

    One really easy way to cut down on stress and irritation is to cut out the negative and increase the positive in your life. This could mean spending less time with people who drain your energy or cut out activities that affect you negatively, like watching the news before bed or being so connected to your phone or other devices that you constantly have information or demands coming at you.

    On the flip side, the easiest and most enjoyable way to manage your stress is to increase the amount of time you spend doing positive activities. Negative emotions sap our energy and it is hard to get the motivation to get going with anything apart from the things that must be done. One of the most important ways to improve your mood is to take the view that life isn’t something to just get through, it is something to enjoy!

    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Coping Strategies

    Sometimes we are not able to change the situation/person/event that is triggering us, but we can change the way we are thinking about it and the way we respond.
    When we are anxious or angry, our thoughts tend to veer to the negative and we are very good at looking for evidence that supports negative thinking, while tuning out information that shows neutral or positive information.

    The first step towards change is noticing what you saying to yourself. Our thoughts affect our emotions and then ultimately our behavior.

    What we think = how we feel = how we behave.

    If you can notice when you are getting triggered, remove yourself physically from the situation (or at least mentally if you can’t actually leave) and then do a breathing technique to calm the adrenaline. When your thoughts aren’t racing as much, you can consider alternate ways of thinking about things.

    The Number 1 Question That Helps Reduce Stress & Worrying explains ways to think about what you can control and what you can’t. Are you stressed by something that is happening now in the present, is in the past or has it not actually happened yet? These tips can be read or watched via a YouTube video.

    • I think it is important to question yourself about what it is specifically about this situation that is making you feel angry or stressed?
    • How you have tackled similar situations in the past?
    • Do you keep doing the same unhelpful thing again and again?
    • Is there a different way you have reacted in the past that has worked better for you or perhaps some advice you would give someone else in a similar situation?

    Look to the past to find answers about how you can tackle the situation to problem solve or effect change. Another good questions to ask yourself is “am I kinder in the way I talk to someone else in a similar situation, than I am to myself? Thoughts can also be called ‘self-talk’ and how we speak to ourselves really affects how we feel. Self-talk is so automatic that you don’t even realize that you’re doing it and how hard you are being on yourself.

    Lastly, a really powerful way to reduce feelings of chronic stress or anger is to carve out time to recognize all the things you have to be thankful in your life. I suggest to my clients that they write down three things they are grateful for every evening. Knowing you are going to do this helps you pay more attention to the good things that happen as you go through the day. This can be especially helpful if you tend to dwell on the negative as it helps to balance out the way you are thinking about things.

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      Remote Therapy Appointments Available

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      Remote Therapy For Difficult Times How are you holding up? Life has certainly taken an unexpected turn for all of us the past few weeks. The fear and uncertainty around the Covid-19 pandemic and the huge effect it has had on our lives in such a short period of time has caused a lot of […]

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      Online Therapy For Pregnant and New Moms

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      Online Therapy For Pregnant & New Moms In the past decade and what I now call typical times, many of the pregnant and new moms I have worked with utilized remote counseling (also called online therapy or teletherapy), as it allowed them access expert help from a maternal mental health specialist without worrying about driving […]

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      The Facts About Pregnancy and Postpartum Anxiety

      by Dr. Sarah Allen

      There has been a growing awareness about Postpartum Depression over the past decade and doctors offices now routinely screen moms for it, but I think anxiety, during pregnancy and after having a baby, is nearly as common and just as debilitating. It is time to focus on how many women are affected by anxiety and […]

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      Is It Postpartum Depression Or Something Else?

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        During this difficult time I will be offering remote therapy via phone or video conferencing while the Stay At Home order is in place in Illinois. Read more about how remote counseling works Dr. Allen Telephone & Video Sessions   Types of Pregnancy & Postpartum Mood Disorders In this article, which is a chapter […]

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      5 Best Anxiety Treatment Blog Posts

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      Here are my five most popular blog posts that help reduce anxiety condensed into one post so you don’t have to search though all my blog posts to see these many tips. I hope you find them useful and if you do, I have many more on my website for you to read too. If […]

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      7 Simple Grounding Techniques For Calming Down Quickly

      by Dr. Sarah Allen

        Read more about how remote counseling works Dr. Allen Telephone & Video Sessions    7 Simple Grounding Techniques For Calming Down Quickly One of the tools I teach my clients to utilize when they feel anxious is called Grounding. When your mind is racing mind, grounding brings you back to the here-and-now and is […]

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      Woman’s World Magazine America’s Ultimate Experts Article

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      Help! I Am Worried All The Time!   A few weeks ago I got an email from Kristina Mastrocola, Senior Editor at Woman’s World magazine, asking to interview me for their America’s Ultimate Expert page about things people can do to stop worrying. To say I was honored was an understatement! Woman’s World is a […]

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      3 Proven Ways to Boost Your Body Image

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      Do you ever look in the mirror and focus on a particular body part you are unhappy about and then start to be hypercritical and notice and worry about other parts of your body too? You wish your bum wasn’t quite as big in those jeans and then you notice your thighs and the wrinkles […]

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