Pregnancy and Postpartum

 

Here are my top 10 most viewed blog posts about pregnancy and postpartum issues and rather than having to search though all my blogs, or only see the most recent ones, I thought it would be helpful to put them in one post.

During the 20+ years I have been working with pregnant and new moms and 15 years being director of the PPD Alliance of IL I have found many things are helpful in reducing anxiety, depression and trauma. I also want to increase awareness so everyone realizes how common (research shows up to 20% of women!) and treatable perinatal mood disorders are.  Since I started my blog a few years ago I love to share this information with everyone and I hope you find it useful.

If you have any questions after reading any of the blogs please don’t hesitate to contact me on the form at the bottom of the page.

10 Tips For New Moms About Pregnancy & Postpartum Mood Disorders

Here are 10 tips are for women who want to know what pregnancy and postpartum mood disorders are, how to prevent them, and how to get treatment if motherhood is not all you expected it to be.

 

Are You At Risk For Postpartum Anxiety Or Depression? Take The Quiz

No one can say for definite that having specific stresses or experiences in your life, or perhaps having certain personality traits, causes postpartum anxiety or depression but we do know that there are quite a few factors that can increase your risk. Read this post to take a quiz to see if you are at risk.

 

The Facts About Pregnancy and Postpartum Anxiety

Approximately 6% of pregnant and 10% of new moms experience anxiety. Learn more about the symptoms of perinatal anxiety, panic attacks, the difference between postpartum OCD & psychosis and how some women experience PTSD following traumatic labors.

 

Join Us For A Free Emotional Wellness For Moms Workshop

As well being in private practice specializing in working with women I am the Director of the Postpartum Depression Alliance of IL and every 3-4 months I hold a free workshop for new moms. The next one is on Wednesday, May 11th, 2016 at 1pm – 2.30pm in Northbrook.

 

Online Therapy Is An Effective Treatment For Postpartum Depression

Rates of postpartum depression are high — between 10 to 30 percent of mothers are affected — but many women don’t seek help partly due to  practical reasons. This study found that the women who received online treatment reported better results for depression, work and social impairment, and anxiety scores immediately after they had received the treatment.

 

Listen To My Interview About Pregnancy & Postpartum Mood Disorders On Radio WXRP

The show’s host Nikki Jackson has recently had her fourth baby and was interested in telling her listeners more about pregnancy and postpartum mood disorders.

 

 

Dads Are At Risk For Depression After A Baby Too!

Recent research has shown that men are also at risk for mood disorders after becoming a dad. This post details the symptoms of paternal depression and how it can be different from maternal depression.

 

33 Things A Stressed Mom Can Do To Look After Herself

33 things a stressed mom can do and say to look after herself. You may not feel able to do all of the things listed here  at once. The most important thing is to take small steps, try not to be too hard on yourself and take one day at a time.

 

Days After Giving Birth Sparks Honest Confessions

Last Fall a photo of a woman holding a 3 day old baby went viral and I was interviewed by Yahoo Parenting interviewed me to ask me why I thought women had been moved by this post in which Danielle Haines portrays the difficulties and raw emotions she experienced in the first few days of motherhood.

 

Need A Simple Way To Keep Calm?

It can be frustrating and overwhelming being a mom! This blog post explains the role of adrenaline in whipping up emotions and a simple technique to calm down when feeling panicky, overwhelmed or frustrated.

 

If you want to read more about maternal mental health download the FREE Guide To Pregnancy & Postpartum Stress, Anxiety & Depression. It is full of information about symptoms, different types of maternal mood disorders and advice about what to do to start feeling like yourself again.

Dr. Sarah Allen has 20+ years experience as a psychologist helping women transition to being the mom they want to be. She is also the Director of the Postpartum Depression Alliance of IL, a non-profit offering info and support to pregnant and postpartum moms and their families.

In her Northbrook office, in the North Suburbs of Chicago, or via telephone or online counseling she offers the most convenient way for you to access support and help.

If you have questions after reading this article or the Guide To Pregnancy & Postpartum Stress, Anxiety & Depression or have any questions about how counseling can be useful to your particular circumstances please contact me at 847 791-7722 or on the form below.

 

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There has been a growing awareness about Postpartum Depression over the past decade and doctors offices now routinely screen moms for it but I think anxiety, during pregnancy and after having a baby, is nearly as common and just as debilitating. It is time to focus on how many women are effected by anxiety and educate our community so we are all aware of the symptoms and how to access appropriate help.

Approximately 6% of pregnant and 10% of new moms experience anxiety, and remember that statistic comes from the number of women actually reporting it so imagine how many women go through anxiety and don’t mention it to their doctors or reach out for help. You are definitely not alone in going through this and treatment is available and really can help.

Pregnancy Anxiety

Let’s start with pregnancy. Pregnant women get a lot of advice about what they should do or not do from everyone and their dog. It can make you a little paranoid. The process of trying to get pregnant, fear of miscarriage, especially if there is a previous loss and what is going to happen to your life can all cause anxiety or exacerbate pre-existing anxiety. A lot of my clients say that they have always been a worrier and others say they weren’t anxious until getting pregnant.

Postpartum Anxiety

When the baby arrives every new parent worries that they don’t really know what they are doing and somehow, inadvertently, they may do something, or not do something, that causes harm to their baby. Are they getting enough milk, sleep, developing okay???

Until a baby arrives, you don’t realize how totally vulnerable a little human is and now you are totally responsible for it! This can be scary sometimes but these worries are totally normal and everyone gets them occasionally.

What we are talking about here though is something quite different, postpartum anxiety is more intense and persistent than typical new parent concerns. If you have any of the symptoms below for most of the day, you probably have postpartum anxiety. If they persist for more than a couple of weeks after the birth (the baby blues effect 80% of women but within 2 weeks mood swings typically calm down) or come on anytime in the first year and last two weeks or more, then it is important to seek support.

Symptoms of Pregnancy & Postpartum Anxiety

Racing thoughts – they go round and round in your brain with no off switch.

Worrying – it’s constant, you know the concerns are excessive but that doesn’t stop the worries and when you stop worrying about one thing, your mind jumps to another. Worries often surround the well-being of the baby or your other children, partner and yourself. Women worry they are going crazy and have a feeling of dread in the pit of their stomach.

Lack of concentration – your focus flits from one thing to another and memory is poor.

Restlessness – you are exhausted but so agitated you can’t settle or relax.

Sleep disturbance – you can’t sleep even if the baby is sleeping and when you drop off you don’t wake up energized.

Irritability – you may be able to hide it from friends, your partner will probably be getting the brunt of it.

Physical tension – your muscles are balls of tension, possibly leading to neck, shoulder and backaches.

No appetite – women want to lose the baby pounds but this isn’t the way to do it. Even though you know you should be keeping hydrated and your energy up, you have no appetite for food and may feel nauseous a lot of the time.

There are subsets of anxiety symptoms that are important to differentiate.

Panic Attacks

Panic attacks are like anxiety multiplied by 10. They have a sudden onset and are accompanied by intense fear of something bad happening.

Physical symptoms include shortness of breath, chest pain, dizziness, heart palpitations (people often think they are going to have a heart attack), sweating and gastrointestinal upset.

Emotionally you may feel that you are going to somehow lose control, go crazy and may start to avoid situations where you have experienced panic attacks for fear of one happening again.

Panic attacks seem to go in waves, but it is important to know that they will pass and will not hurt you and there are techniques to calm your mind and body down.

The Difference Between Postpartum OCD & Psychosis

OCD is the short name for obsessive compulsive disorder. Obsessions are unwanted thoughts that pop into your head totally uninvited and during pregnancy or after childbirth these thoughts typically revolve around some harm coming to the baby. The thoughts, images or visions can be really horrific and seem very real. Women tend to not tell anyone they have these thoughts for fear of what others may think of them. When we keep thoughts in our head though, they grow more severe and even more frequent.

A lot of time (but not always) the thoughts are accompanied with a compulsion (an overwhelming belief that you MUST do a certain behavior or think certain thoughts in the belief that this will stop the bad thing from actually happening).

Women worry that having these types of thoughts means they are going crazy. When stories get in to the news about postpartum women it is usually because the woman has postpartum psychosis and has done something horrific like harm her baby or driven off a bridge. Those stories are so horrible that the news media jump all over them but only 0.1% of new moms experience postpartum psychosis ( termed PPP). IT IS RARE! Furthermore, only about 4% of this 0.1% harm actually harm themselves or their baby so the likelihood that you are having a psychotic episode (i.e. are not in touch with reality) and will actually cause harm is EXTREMELY RARE but it makes headlines.

About 3 -5% of women experience postpartum OCD so although it is not talked about as much as postpartum depression, it is pretty common and the most important thing to remember is that if you know these thoughts would be a bad thing to do, you are experiencing OCD, not psychosis.

The main symptoms of PPP include delusions or strange beliefs, hallucinations (seeing or hearing things that aren’t there), feeling very irritated & hyper, decreased need for or inability to sleep, paranoia and suspiciousness and rapid mood swings. In a psychotic state, a woman’s delusions and beliefs make total sense to her (but would be irrational to others) and feel very meaningful. Risk factors for PPP are a family history or previous personal history of psychosis or bipolar. Treatment needs to be immediate and requires hospitalization. You see, it is very different from having anxiety-provoking horrible thoughts and still being in touch with reality.

PTSD After Childbirth

Postpartum post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) following a difficult childbirth is more common than you think. It is triggered by a real or perceived trauma during delivery and can effect up to 6% of mothers. The traumatic experiences usually leave a women feeling that either her life or the life of her baby is at risk during the labor or shortly thereafter.

Symptoms of fully fledged postpartum PTSD might include intrusive re-experiencing of a past traumatic event (which in this case may have been the childbirth itself, shortly after or events leading up to going to the hospital), flashbacks or nightmares, avoidance of stimuli associated with the event, persistent increased arousal (irritability, difficulty sleeping, hyper-vigilance, exaggerated startle response), anxiety and panic attacks, and feeling a sense detachment.

What I often see in my practice is that women who have had a difficult labor don’t necessarily have the flashbacks and nightmares but they are left with persistent anxiety and hypervigilance about potential harmful things happening in the future or guilt and regret about how labor turned out.

After reading this article do any of these feelings seem familiar? What I really want you to take away from reading this is that pregnancy and postpartum anxiety is much more common that you think it is. Many of the women you know have probably experienced the same thing but just don’t talk about it and struggle on.

Anxiety is very treatable though. You don’t need to struggle by yourself. In particular, I find that cognitive therapy is the most effective way to get on top of anxiety. Also known as CBT, it is a problem-solving type of therapy and helps you learn ways to calm down quickly, develop coping strategies and think about things in a different, more helpful way. I use CBT anxiety-reducing treatment strategies and combine them with 20 years of experience of working with new moms and the knowledge I gained raising 3 children of my own.

If you have had therapy before you might find this type of counseling to be more directive and problem-solving than you are used to but I have found to be the most effective way. No lying on my couch while I say “Hmm, how does that make you feel.”

I have two free booklets that are full of information which will be useful to you.

A Guide To Pregnancy & Postpartum Stress, Anxiety & Depression has more information about symptoms, risk factors, how to look after yourself and treatment options.

 

To get your FREE copy of the booklet click the link below

Guide To Pregnancy & Postpartum Stress, Anxiety & Depression

 

 

 

Simple Steps To Overcoming Anxiety & Worrying can be downloaded below and is full of practical tips and exercises to get anxiety more under control.

 

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